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Sounds like a fan page to me š¤ this is the wrong title for this video you should have named this video how much I kissed j Lo's ass
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I wonder how many less subscribers you would have if your face wasn't symmetrical.
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It isn't that she is just anxiously attached. It is obvious she is cluster b. She lies and she uses people to get places. Everything is an act and all the people who have met her and could offer her nothing have had horrible things to say about her. She had an interview highlighting how she is a mean girl.
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Anxious/avoidant attachment style? How unfortunate this poor little girl from the Bronx can't afford therapy.
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No wonder i haven't heard about the other movie. I haven't had a prime membership in 5-6 years.
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I find it weird people haven't paid attention to how old she is, the importance of symbolism in story telling (specially abut your internal self) and most people have no clue that there is the trauma that's done to you and the more subtle trauma of what wasn't done to you (or for you, as it were) that shapes peoples lives. Everyone's lives.
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Just too fake and rude
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Her massive ego makes everyone hate her
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To call JLo "one of the most iconic performers of our generation" is laughable.
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this channel makes some really good videos icl
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She canāt sing š
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I don't ever recall being obsessed with J-Lo has always been a fraud especially to the black community. You all can put her on whatever pedestal you want but she steals material and she treats people nasty so if that's what you like go ahead.
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How is J-Lo, who can't sing, a rep for American Idol??
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She's talking about Tang or Fanta, you dumb GenZers who know nothing about '80s New York or 80s drinks!!!! Maybe you can get your sub with a side of sushi these days, but not in the damn '80s!!
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To be fair, what Jo-Lo is referring to is Tang or Fanta, popular drinks in the 80s that don't exist now, so Gen Zers acting all "baffled" by what she's talking about can get off it by exposing their embryotic ignorance about the 80s and New York. And just because you can get a "special order" on your ghetto sub today was not how it was like in the 80s at a Bodega.
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She can't sing, ripped off her entire love life with Ben painfully in tow, then demonstrated what a narcissist she is by following up her vanity project with a documentary, then exploits her "ethnicity" by using her Bronx background when she was hardly "poor"'growing up…..enough said.
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I donāt like her. š
However, as someone who (unfortunately) has a gnarly case of the disorder, I guess I recognized some things in here that rang true.
Especially the one I mentioned.
My twin had the disorder and during an episode, she expressed she felt as if she were going to die (as she had many times before.)
She wasnāt believed, and I donāt have her anymore.
Iām just really reluctant to chalk things like that up to being a jerk or selfish. -
Excellent material, very smart insight! Thank you for this! It stands out among all the videos only criticizing JLO lately.
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Being from NY, imma jus say that including a clip from Ashley Bautista just irked me in a way I can not describe IYKYK LMFAOOOOOOOO
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J-Lo's booty is iconic.
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At Least JLo is not like Jada Pinkett-Smith.
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I really like looking at these dysfunctional toxic relationships and people that this world has idolized, through the lens of psychological and emotional patterns such as attachment styles. It really helps the public to wake up and look at who they've been idolizing. So while yes JLO fights for our attention thinking that it's love, she has also been idolized by the public for a long time too. The whole idea of celebrity is putting someone on a pedestal, idolizing, and worshipping them while they don't know that we exist. So there's an anxious/avoidant situation there too between celebrity and "fans." I think it can keep flipping back and forth until one side decides to get off the rollercoaster and become secure.
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This is the most pragmatic, insightful examination of a celebrity Iāve seen.
To explain how her reactions to rejection seem exaggerated to everyone because of her disorder is so spot on. Nice. -
I clicked on this video cuz I found it super funny how the title suggests that thereās only one reason š
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Is this a coverup piece? This is the most ridiculous, kiss my sunshine farts I've never seen.
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Castle hill is the hood but just like any other place castle hill has a nice part. South Bronx is part of the ghetto! Her making the little girl her look dirty and almost like an orphan is ridiculous!
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Ive never really cared about celeb gossip but i just started binging your vids recently while working out and i find your content really interesting. I like the way you lay out your info and it feels more insightful than catty like typical celeb news
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Hey, JLO ——>> šµ Man-ners Don't Cost a Thing š¶
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I do like the perspective on the fact checking because you have millennials confused but people within her generation totally know whatās sheās talking about. But I also think if she just didnāt make the documentary musical she wouldnāt be getting so much flack. I think celebrity documentaries are always pushing the angle of āIām the victimā and I donāt think thatās the perspective they should take because normal folk donāt want to hear millionaires crying about why their life is so tough. It definitely can be for a celebrity but the general public canāt stand these things. She isnāt the only one thatās done this so Iām not saying itās her specifically but after the superbowl, hustlers and being with batman again, she was on the upscale. And yes the documentary definitely had an effect on her relationship with him. Sheās in a different generation and I think the ultra affection with Batman on social media or the media in general was just not okay. Whereas younger celebrities go out of their way to avoid posting their partners or showing off to the media.
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I like this. This was very balanced analysis.
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I get your point and you're probably right, but your video is so full of psychological analysis that it starts sounding repetitive after a while. I think you're missing that J.Lo acts like she's amazing and better than other people, treats them like crap and doesn't sing her own songs. When people dislike someone it's usually something simple. And she seems to be unable to display true humility-and be vulnerable which makes her unlikeable. I've seen her do it in characters in movies, but she can't seem to do it in real life.
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I feel like you need a part 2 applying this lens to her musical career
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Mhmm this makes me feel like you got paid by jlo to dispel the negative rumors about her. The reason people donāt like it arenāt because of her attachment styles (which you heavily keep referring to) but because of the nasty person that she is to others. Talking down to her employees, being a nasty person to customer service staff, taking tips back, not allowing people to speak to her directly, talking smack to other celebrities immensely above her, her huge ego, the way she always takes credit for being from the Bronx yet has never done anything for the community she reps at any chance she gets. Among many other things. So no, people donāt dislike her because she is an anxious attached person, but because her personality is just unlikeable.
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JLo only challenge is that she is unapproachable and equally not likable. Hence, it doesn't really matter how well she dances, how great her body is, how much money she has, how much stuff she has, how well she can act…nor how pretty she is. If you're not approachable, relatable, or liked, you have therefore created the narrative that everyone is voicing now. All the other stuff, entitlement-bad tipping-meaness to other people, are simply…symptoms of her own insecurities and the fight she has in her own mind about her worthiness & greatness. š¢Sad.
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Correction: āOut of Sightā was NOT Spielberg. It was Soderbergh.
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Wow that disorganized attachment style sounds familiarā¦ oh itās because youāre describing me š wasnāt expecting that to hit so hard but I appreciate the in depth explanation of each attachment style because I was always kind of unclear of what that even was
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I love how JLo had her foot on the necks of people she took songs from, but she couldnāt keep Mariah down
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This was a very good analysis.
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She does work very very hard. And that also means less emtional energie for others. Thats how things work, like it or not.
